Kokoro Salon Journal

The Body Holds Everything: How Releasing Tension Transforms Your Shape & Health

Feeling Stuck with Weight Loss? The Missing Link No One Talks About

How to Stop Being So Hard on Yourself and Start Loving Who You Are: A Reflection on Self-Care

The Art of Cultivating Spaciousness

Self-Care for Human Design Projectors: Increase your Energetic Capacity for Success and Balance

Why Belly Fat Is So Stubborn: A Holistic Approach Beyond Diet & Exercise

Knowing Your Why: The Key to Health and Fulfillment
Knowing Your Why: The Key to Health and Fulfillment

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others and Find Confidence in Your Own Journey
If you've ever found yourself caught in the cycle of social comparison, you're not alone. It's human nature for us to look at the success of peers and feel frustrated, thinking, "Why don't I have that?" or "How did my life turn out this way?" This comparison game can significantly impact our mental health and self-esteem.
For many women in their 30s to 60s, it can feel like life is passing by while others seem to have everything we want—a thriving career, a loving family, financial stability, or even just a sense of fulfillment. This constant comparison can lead to negative thoughts, frustration, sadness, and disappointment with ourselves, making it hard to appreciate the unique path we're on.
But what if we could shift our focus inward, away from external validation, and rediscover the beauty in our own journey?
In this post, we’ll explore why we compare ourselves to others, how it impacts our well-being, and practical steps to shift your focus inward to build a life you truly love and enjoy. By the end, you’ll have a deeper understanding of how to stop comparing yourself to others and embrace your own path with confidence and grace.

Motivation and Self-Disciplined Redefined with Lilynage: A kinder way to transform your body

How Deep Lymphatic Self-Massage Helps You Lose Weight and Gain Confidence
How Deep Lymphatic Self-Massage helps you to lose weight and gain confidence.

The life-changing magic of Lilynage: Build self-confidence and cultivate love within yourself

How to Navigate Uncertain Times and Build Resilience in Life
The Courage to Enjoy Being Yourself More

Navigating the Low Points: How to Care for Yourself When Motivation Is Nowhere to Be Found

The Beauty of Course-Correction
The Beauty of Course-Correction.

02 the words we say to ourselves

01 kokoro - our heart and mind
How are we spending time loving, cherishing and cultivating our heart and mind?